it’s all about hurt
The person you love the most is the same person who has the power to hurt you the most. A concrete evidence of his great love for you is him not trying to use that power despite his awareness. (naisip ko lang..)
but almost all the people we love hurt us and we do hurt them too. perhaps to see if we have that power in us and therefore, find out if we are indeed loved. why don’t we just ask instead (rather than make use of our power)? oh well, at times, we are unaware that we’re hurting someone. and only when we see them hurting do we realize what we’ve done and who we are to them. there’s just no escape to hurting someone and getting hurt. the true sign then of our love for someone is when we are hurting them and yet, we’re feeling the hurt ourselves. (i.e. i could hurt my mother or my sister, but i could never do that without hurting myself (in the process)).
shiera said,
October 19, 2007 at 11:39 am
So true… in my case.
rose said,
October 19, 2007 at 11:42 am
same here.
erra said,
October 20, 2007 at 3:32 pm
Hi rose! just a thought, that’s life
It would be abnormal not to experience love and getting hurt and be loved again.
Btw, the one you left on my comment box – the little fountain can be bought here in Pinas at about 299.75 at handyman
Diobert said,
October 22, 2007 at 8:51 pm
The feeling is amplified if it comes from the person that matters to us the most.